What does “He that finds his life shall lose it, and he who has lost his life for my sake shall find it” (Matt. 10: 39) mean?


With some variation, this statement of the Lord occurs six times in the Gospels, and all four Gospel writers record it (see Matt. 10: 39; 16: 25; Mark 8: 35; Luke 9: 24; 17: 33; John 12: 25).

   The context of Matt. 10: 39 is clearly how the Lord’s servants are promised a pathway of suffering, for “they of his household [shall be] a man’s enemies” (v36). Indeed, “he who does not take up his cross and follow after me is not worthy of me” (v38)—the servant is to live as if he is going to die, for death is a very real prospect. Two companies are in view in v39: one delivered from death (“that finds his life”) only to “lose it”, and another that is martyred (“who has lost his life for my sake”) but who shall find life again in resurrection (“shall find it”). None of this refers to spiritual life because it is clearly the same life that is in view throughout—a life that can be lost “for my sake” (v39). The rather similar passage in Matt. 16: 25 is followed immediately by “For what does a man profit, if he should gain the whole world and suffer the loss of his soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?” (v26). However, it does not follow that v25 must therefore be about spiritual life. “Life” (v25) and “soul” (v26) are translations of the same Greek word (yuch), and loss of life is, for the unbeliever, the same as loss of the soul. As Luke puts it, he shall “come under the penalty of the loss of himself” (Luke 9: 25). Turning to Luke 17: 33, we read that “Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it, and whosoever shall lose it shall preserve it”, where the word translated preserve (zwogonew) means to bring forth alive. Losing, yet preserving life (in that order) necessitate resurrection. Similarly in Luke 9: 24—he shall save (or deliver) his life, not from death here but the greater danger of v26: “of him will the Son of man be ashamed when he shall come in his glory”.

   Matt. 10: 39 is set within the Lord’s instructions to the twelve disciples regarding the preaching of the Gospel of the kingdom—the good news that “The kingdom of the heavens has drawn nigh” (Matt. 10: 7). These “glad tidings of the kingdom” (Matt. 24: 14) will be taken up again before “the Son of man comes” again “in his glory” (Matt. 25: 31). He will then “sit down upon his throne of glory” (v31) and those alive on the earth when He returns will be separated into two groups. Those who responded positively to the preaching of the kingdom, will “inherit the kingdom” (v34)—be preserved in life on this earth in the kingdom. Indeed, these righteous are said to go “into life eternal” (v46), for on the millennial earth death will be an abnormal occurrence (see Is. 65: 20) and “There is no one who has left home … for the kingdom of God’s sake, who shall not receive manifold more at this time, and in the coming age life eternal” Luke 18: 29, 30, my emphasis).  By contrast, those who responded negatively to the kingdom message, “shall go away into eternal punishment” (Matt. 25: 46)—will be put to death. Hence, after reading in Luke 17: 33 that “Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it, and whosoever shall lose it shall preserve it”, the Lord immediately goes on to speak of two companies (see vs. 34-37)—one selected for judgment, and the other left on the earth (to enter the kingdom). Notice too that Mark 8: 35 is followed by “For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him shall the Son of man also be ashamed when he shall come in the glory of His Father with the holy angels” (v38; comp. Matt. 16: 25, 27; Luke 9: 24, 26). Thus “whosoever shall desire to save his life shall lose it” (Mark 8: 35) is the equivalent of “He that finds his life shall lose it” (Matt. 10: 39). The sense is that those who sacrifice obedience to the Gospel of the kingdom in order to escape death in the tribulation (thus ‘finding’ their natural lives) will be put to death by the King when He returns. By contrast, “he who has lost his life for my sake shall find it” (Matt. 10: 39)—will be raised from the dead to kingdom glory by the King on His return.

   John 12 records the Lord as saying that “He that loves his life shall lose it, and he that hates his life in this world shall keep it to life eternal” (v25). Now the life that is loved or hated here must be physical life (it would be nonsensical to teach that the believer should hate his spiritual life). Men of the world set great store by their natural lives, but what they love they will one day forfeit. By contrast, the believer attaches no great importance to “his life in this world”—a life subject to death. Note those words “in this world”—by implication, there is another world. Now the Lord does not say that by hating his life in this world that the believer will keep it in this world, but that he will keep it “to life eternal” (my emphasis). That is, “having been justified by his grace, we should become heirs according to [the] hope of eternal life” (Titus 3: 7)—the life associated with “the habitable world which is to come” (Heb. 2: 5). Whether the believer lives or dies in this world is of no great interest to him, for he has life in another world—that scene where death has no hold on the believer.

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